have been rather sianx this weekend.. it seems like there is alot of things i wanna do and yet im unable to do so. well on a positive side, there's no mobmanning and yea i went shopping yest in town, quite an experience since i haven shop alone for long, visited suntec, marina, rccc, bras brasah bugis.. quite tiring haha but bought and ate what i wanted and craved for hence im satisfied at the end of the day yea. o wells it feels weird to shop alone, no one to ask for comments on the outfit after i pop out of changing room. the difference b/w solo shop n grp shop is tt in grp shop we take turns to buy things we want hence giving us the 'panting time' in b/w, for solo case, its like~ in-> try->buy->out->next->in->try->out kinda thing.. lol. . .
guess i shall change blog song to 在这寂寞的季节?
well on a brighter note, its 83 more days or so to ord.. minus weekends + off and leave it will leave me with around 40 days. why as the ord date draws nearer, i feel a tinge of 'she bu de' perhaps its just an escapism from life after ord.. recently had PC interview, when being asked on the question what had i learnt from being in army for the 2yrs, i was quite taken aback. the frenships and camaraderie forged thru bonding in bravo coy, but frankly speaking who are the few that falls into the latter 3 and not the first category?
级一:点头之交
所谓点头,就是碰了面,能微笑地点头示意,能一起玩乐,或能对时事相互感慨一番,但仅此而已。
点头之交,是两个圆圈相碰触的那一个点面,它不涉及到彼此的界限之内。这样的朋友,数量最多,也最轻松、舒适,或许擦肩而过,永不再见,或许就是那么微微碰触着,不远不近。
级二:暖手之交
握手,是友谊的象征。
握着的手中,传递着慷慨的暖意。
这样的朋友,会毫不迟疑地给你温暖的双手,支持你,鼓励你,直到你松手,然后,微笑着,并不在意你的谢意。
暖手之交,或许并不能给你熊熊的火焰,并不能上升到生死相托的高度,但,就是那么一丝温暖,在悄然间,走过了寒冬,浏览了岁月。
级三:刻骨之交
刻骨,是一个很沉重的词,因为沉重,所以会其不自觉地封存在记忆的角落。
以为已经忘记,以为已经放弃,以为已经解脱。
然而,当这刻骨的人,出现在你面前,当这刻骨的声音,响在你耳边,一切立刻还原。你立刻知道,什么都没忘记,什么都未放弃,从来都不曾解脱,你会对着这人,千言万语只化做一句:我,愿意!
级四:知心之交
知心之交,没有刻骨的负担,却会满心欢喜地作出承诺;他不需要握手,却能将温暖传到你的心里。
时间、空间,在这里失去了残酷的威力。
相识满天下,知心有几人?back to life: updates for next month
24/9->cdo
26/9,28/9 ->f1 ops
2/10,5/10-> last oir
14-16-> PLT cohesion
17-21/10-> penang trip
29/10-> BTT
30-31/10-> ord function